Will you marry me?

TO MARRY

mar•ry /ˈmæri/ v.,  -ried, -ry•ing.

1. [~ + object]to take (someone) as a husband or wife:He married her when he was eighteen.
2. [no object]to take a husband or wife; wed:In some countries girls can marry when they are fourteen.
3. [~ + object]to perform the marriage ceremony for (a couple):The priest married them in the old church.
4. to arrange the marriage of:[~ + object]He wanted to marry his daughter into a rich family.[~ + off + object]They married off all their children.[~ + object + off]married them off quickly.

Marry is not followed by any preposition. He married to/with Jane.

TO GET MARRIED

To get mar•ried /ˈmærid/ adj. 

1. [no object] to get united in marriage  I got married in Florida.
2. [~ + object] ] to get united in marriage I got married to Jane

Do not use the preposition with. It is incorrect. He got married with Jane.